{"id":1442,"date":"2007-06-08T18:39:00","date_gmt":"2007-06-08T18:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/?p=1442"},"modified":"2007-06-08T18:39:00","modified_gmt":"2007-06-08T18:39:00","slug":"sex-advice-tripe-o-the-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/patriarchy-blaming\/sex-advice-tripe-o-the-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Sex advice tripe o’ the day"},"content":{"rendered":"

Shorter Globe and Mail<\/i> column<\/a>: Who cares if you don’t want to do it; STFU and spread ’em to hang onto your asshole boyfriend\/husband.<\/p>\n

Those poor dudes, having to endure that constant need to pork things.<\/p>\n

What’s so hilarious (and by hilarious I mean, of course, sad) is this quote by some pseudonymous dude:<\/p>\n

\u201cIf men don’t feel respected or loved, if they don’t feel like a man, if they have to walk around on eggshells when it comes to their sex drive, if their horniness is treated like an inconsiderate act of selfishness \u2013 like typical male behaviour \u2013 then they will reassert themselves with another woman.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And several paragraphs later, the columnist writing this garbage says this:<\/p>\n

Most young mothers will tell you that after having their bodies taken over by pregnancy, and then the demands of breastfeeding and constant monitoring of a baby, what they would really like at night is to be left alone for a bit, untouched. They’ve overdosed on closeness for the time being. <\/p>\n

But husbands still want their wives to view them as the primary relationship.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Got that? You shouldn’t treat an inconsiderate act of selfishness \u2014 the act of hounding someone who does not want sex for sex \u2014 as exactly what it is: An inconsiderate act of selfishness. Because, you know, it hurts dudes’ feelings and emasculates<\/i> them. <\/p>\n

Unbelievable<\/s>. Completely predictable.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Shorter Globe and Mail column: Who cares if you don’t want to do it; STFU and spread ’em to hang onto your asshole boyfriend\/husband. Those poor dudes, having to endure that constant need to pork things. What’s so hilarious (and by hilarious I mean, of course, sad) is this quote by some pseudonymous dude: \u201cIf men don’t feel respected or loved, if they don’t feel like a man, if they have to walk around on… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[39,132],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1442","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-patriarchy-blaming","category-wtf"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1jWWl-ng","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1442","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1442"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1442\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1442"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1442"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1442"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}