{"id":2403,"date":"2009-05-10T06:00:31","date_gmt":"2009-05-10T11:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/?p=2403"},"modified":"2009-05-10T11:01:32","modified_gmt":"2009-05-10T16:01:32","slug":"for-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/poetry\/for-mom\/","title":{"rendered":"For Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>The New Stranger<\/b><br \/>\nby Sharon Olds (from <i>Blood, Tin, Straw<\/i>)<\/p>\n<p>They would peer in the carriage and ask was your father<br \/>\nChinese, your lustrous, curly-lidded,<br \/>\nslightly tilted eyes, your elegant<br \/>\nforehead. You were a stranger to me\u2014<br \/>\nI thought I would know you, but I had to get to know you\u2014<br \/>\nI know your bowl brow, and serious<br \/>\neyes, but sometimes you were alien to me<br \/>\nas a foetus, the large-brained head, the brain<br \/>\nforming its ancient folded flower<br \/>\nlike a vegetable, you could not talk,<br \/>\nyou looked at me as if from far<br \/>\naway, Mars, the newt, I did not<br \/>\nknow you, I had never known a newborn, you<br \/>\nhad to arrive into the arms of an amateur.<br \/>\nNo one has known my ignorance so well, so<br \/>\nsmelled my fear, there, with the fresh<br \/>\nabundant milk. And from no one have I learned<br \/>\n as I learned from you, you brought me forward<br \/>\nfrom brine and kelp and alkali<br \/>\nthrough mitosis, meiosis, zygote, delicate<br \/>\nblastocoele, with your eyes I swam up<br \/>\nfrom deep in your face, with your lips I opened,<br \/>\nwith your tongue I formed your name, with the stub of your<br \/>\nhand I budded, with your baby-fat<br \/>\nI put on cells, with your brown, swirling<br \/>\ncrown I crowned, with your life I came forth,<br \/>\nand a moment later, rose-blue, you opened<br \/>\nthe new package of your breath. I looked<br \/>\nup, and saw you. Hard to tell,<br \/>\nin those first moments on the delivery table,<br \/>\ngore, and cord, and packet of gore,<br \/>\nwho has hooked whom\u2014you caught me<br \/>\ninto the human. I learned to sit still while you<br \/>\nhauled that whale of milk tail-first down<br \/>\nout of me\u2014split, fiery<br \/>\nflukes of your first sips\u2014I learned to be<br \/>\nnuzzled as they might cuddle an autistic child. I learned to croon to you,<br \/>\nto cry and moan, and all this time<br \/>\nyou were getting your first looks at the earth, it was<br \/>\n<i>you<\/i>, and I did not know you, I was not<br \/>\nthere to greet you, I didn&#8217;t exist<br \/>\nuntil you smiled at me, and in your<br \/>\nbrilliant loam-colored iris I saw,<br \/>\ntiny as an embryo,<br \/>\nyour mother smile. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The New Stranger by Sharon Olds (from Blood, Tin, Straw) They would peer in the carriage and ask was your father Chinese, your lustrous, curly-lidded, slightly tilted eyes, your elegant forehead. You were a stranger to me\u2014 I thought I would know you, but I had to get to know you\u2014 I know your bowl brow, and serious eyes, but sometimes you were alien to me as a foetus, the large-brained head, the brain forming&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[234],"tags":[1052,2211,1053],"class_list":["post-2403","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poetry","tag-mothers-day","tag-poetry","tag-sharon-olds"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1jWWl-CL","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2403","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2403"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2403\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2403"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2403"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2403"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}