{"id":7290,"date":"2016-11-26T11:46:56","date_gmt":"2016-11-26T17:46:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/?p=7290"},"modified":"2016-12-07T20:35:04","modified_gmt":"2016-12-08T02:35:04","slug":"love-is-friendship-on-fire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/relationships\/love-is-friendship-on-fire\/","title":{"rendered":"Love is friendship on fire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/relationships\/love-is-friendship-on-fire\/attachment\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7291\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"7291\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/relationships\/love-is-friendship-on-fire\/attachment\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"640,480\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"31218972166_4a948b61f9_z\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z.jpg\" alt=\"31218972166_4a948b61f9_z\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-7291\" srcset=\"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z.jpg 640w, https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_4a948b61f9_z-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Love is friendship on fire.&#8221; I read that somewhere once, many years ago. Actually, I read the French translation, &#8220;L&#8217;amour est l&#8217;amitie sur le feu,&#8221; and thought it sounded so wonderful that I jotted it down and kept it in my metaphorical pocket. It sounded nice, like something I&#8217;d like to try some day. <\/p>\n<p>I was right. <\/p>\n<p>Through some magical combination of dumb luck and brilliant dating-site algorithms, I now get to spend my life building a family and having adventures with my best friend. He&#8217;s patient, kind, handsome, hilarious, sincere, soulful, silly, thoughtful, supportive, smart, creative, and generous. He has been by my side through the toughest year-and-a-half of my life. He can clap louder than anyone you&#8217;ve ever met. He loves Holden so much it makes my heart ache. He makes me want to be a better person every day.<\/p>\n<p>Lately I&#8217;ve tried to keep my mushy, sentimental ramblings off the internet, but listen up: Life is too short to be coy about how important love is. Loving and being loved is revolutionary. It&#8217;s the only thing that matters.<\/p>\n<p>So, in a few months, I am going to marry my soul mate. We&#8217;ll have our whole lives to fan the flames.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Love is friendship on fire.&#8221; I read that somewhere once, many years ago. Actually, I read the French translation, &#8220;L&#8217;amour est l&#8217;amitie sur le feu,&#8221; and thought it sounded so wonderful that I jotted it down and kept it in my metaphorical pocket. It sounded nice, like something I&#8217;d like to try some day. I was right. Through some magical combination of dumb luck and brilliant dating-site algorithms, I now get to spend my life&hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7302,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[127],"tags":[828,1013,2310,2309],"class_list":["post-7290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-love","tag-marriage","tag-proposal","tag-richard"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/31218972166_5a5bdb3a89_o-e1481164485825.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1jWWl-1TA","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7290"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7290\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7294,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7290\/revisions\/7294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7302"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/theogeo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}