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Day 241 — I Heart Saltillo

[for Wednesday, Aug. 29] Sunday was not only my brother’s birthday, but it was also the first of the upcoming Sunday family dinners my mom, aunt, and grandmother have decided to resurrect. When I was a kid, we used to go to Granny’s on Sundays to eat dinner with the family. The tradition probably got neglected around the time that my great-grandfather and grandfather got so sick and were in and out of the hospital.…

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Protective

My mom grew up in an unstable home, where she was shuttled from city to city to parent to parent to grandparent, always one parental breakdown away from being sent back to where she had come from. She grew up watching her mother have a decades-long mental breakdown, during which Nana popped pills and guzzled alcohol and checked in and out of mental wards; Mom’s parents fought and argued and divorced and flung vitriol until…

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Day 168 — Dad

All my life, this man has driven me to do better, think bigger, aim higher. He has taken every opportunity possible to prove that he has my back, whatever the situation. When a spark of talent has emerged in me, he has stepped up to fan the flame. He’s an amazing person, who may or may not want you to know that he sometimes gets emotional when he says grace. People tell me I look…

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Day 147 — Rylee

[for May 27] Today Phil and I drove in to Saltillo together and he fired up both of my parents’ grills and cooked up an enormous spread of burgers and sausages and chicken and hot dogs for our families. It was a rare treat — getting both families (though incomplete) together for dinner, and having Phil get down in his element to cook for everyone. We sat out on the patio and took turns chasing…

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